Live Makeover
There is no better time for your life makeover then when you heart is broken! End of relationships is a new beginning. So why not substitute a period we expect to be painful with fun times that will create new you, new life and eventually attract new better love?
It might sound as a bad joke at the moment, but it will pay off in the long run. I’m sure you might be great in other areas of your life such as career, family, your look, social life and hobbies. However, I doubt it. Why? Because a broken heart usually affects women so hard that all other areas of life tend to go wrong too.
When you are in love, you have so much positive energy that people around you sense it. You get promoted or hired, your business is booming, invitations for events are following you, extra pounds drop off almost automatically and all your personality shines….
When your heart is broken, the only thing you really would like to do is cry. You are depressed and accumulate negative energy that attracts all negative events – you fight with family, feel too sad to go out, fail in your work or school projects and the like because you can’t concentrate on anything else but your break up.
Let’s see what can be improved.
1) Your Look – the better you look, the better you feel about yourself. And when you totally enjoy what you see in the mirror, your reflection becomes a magnet…for new people, circumstances and events. If you are already beautiful, you can still look much better. I don’t believe that ugly women exist…I believe that there are women who refuse to be beautiful because it requires lots dedication and time. And, please, don’t blame the economy…you don’t have to spend any money to look ten times better. Of course, if you have extra money it helps, but I personally know women who turn their looks around while on unemployment.
2) Your Family – there are people who love you and care about you, but who you selfishly neglected because…you are too busy, too tired, too much in love, too miserably broken hearted etc…
There is a little parable. “A fairy asks a woman what she would do if she found out that she has one year to live? “I’d put my will together, straighten up business, put together the list of things I always wanted to do and just did them”. “Ok”, Fairy answered, “what if you had one month to live?” “I’d remembered all beautiful moments I had and tried to get as many beautiful moments as I could”. “Great”, the fairy said, “And what if you had one day to live?” “I’d pick up my phone, call my family and say how much I love them and care about them. I’d tell them how many times I just forget about them because I was too selfish to remember”… The moral of this story: Why wait till your last day? Why don’t you pick up your phone and say ‘I love you” to people who really deserve it now!
3) Your Career
Are you as successful as you could be? Do you have a dream job or you were too busy swimming in thoughts and memories of your dysfunctional relationships? Now is a great time to evaluate what you really have. I’m sure that no matter how great things are, you always can do better. So drop your sad thoughts and get busy with your resume, get more clients, go for promotion or finish those projects you were neglecting for a long time. The more successful you will be, the more successful men you’ll attract in the future.
4) Your social life
Where have you been since you met your man? I’m sure that the most events you attended with him. Or even if you went somewhere by yourself, all your attention was on your phone and you kept your “eyes closed for meeting new people.” Each and every event can bring you new connections that can lead to meeting a new, better mate. You never know what gift life has for you. So, put your “social calendar” together and stop saying “no,” “I’m busy,” “I’m tired” and “I’ll go another time”. Get dressed; pull together all positive energy you have left after break up, smile and go!
Those are only 4 areas of your life you can improve now. But you know better what else you wanted to do with your life. Take time for yourself, get out of a shell and start fully living your life!
